January 3, 2010 Des Moines
Jeremiah 31:7-14
Merry Dancing & Joy
We
mark time. I’m not sure exactly what all
this idiosyncrasy signifies, but things like birthdays and anniversaries and
“New Years” are big deals to us. We buy
cards, pop champagne, blow out candles, throw parties and, at least in the case
of this special day, count down the seconds with the drop of a Waterford
crystal ball over Time Square, declare a holiday and schedule a bowl game – or
two…dozen. Perhaps we simply value their
designated opportunities to look reflectively around and within, and to call
attention to the fact that time is not simply an ever-flowing stream; it also
ponds here and there…and splashes. Not
every day is exactly like the one before or after it. There are births and deaths and life-changing
promises; there are dawnings that change the nature of who one understands
herself to be, and there are announcements that change the course of time.
That, I suggest, is sort of what’s happening in the reading we shared
together – though what's going on in the
passage isn’t so much the announcement, itself, of something that portends the
change in virtually everything, as it is the call to celebrate that coming
change. But never sell short the
precious flavor of celebration, itself.
I made a recipe this week from Julia Child’s now-classic Mastering the Art of French Cooking. In preparation for my time in the kitchen
I re-watched Julia, herself, preparing it in what was the very first episode of
her iconic Public Television series, The
French Chef. “Boeuf
Bourguignon.” She, of course, made it
look easy. It took a bit more, though,
than a 30-minute episode for me to recreate it in my kitchen. Nonetheless, it turned out fabulously, if I
do say so myself – meat tender enough to cut with a spoon, to the extent that
“cutting” was required at all; vegetables interesting and tasty. But the sauce! Oh my.
Heaven in liquid form!
Admittedly, the meat was the main event.
That’s ultimately why you prepare the dish, and if you were going to
look for nourishment – chewy substance – you would want to stick your fork
there. There, in the hefty chunks that
had been braised for hours, was the protein one could use to survive. But the flavor was in the sauce. If a person were simply looking to turn his
mouth into a sanctuary, grab a spoon. Or
maybe a straw. Ummm.
That’s sort of the way I suggest reading this morning’s
poetry from the prophet Jeremiah. There
are meatier passages in scripture than this one. If you are looking for insight to reflect on
or meaty wisdom to chew on, you’ll want to flip over to other pages and
passages where you’ll read important counsel about things like forgiveness and patience and prayer and community. But if you are looking for rich and
delectable flavor, read on – or
should I say “read over, again and again.”
Jeremiah, to put it into other terms, is here declaring an
“exclamation mark” moment.
Now, editorially speaking, I think the exclamation mark has
come to be numbingly overused. Have you
noticed that all of a sudden everything seems to be emphatic? Yesterday's quadra-fingered “quotation marks”
around every interjection have become today's profligate exclamations. Perhaps it has to do with our increasingly
textual form of communicating – emails, text messages, tweets and the like –
that whatever their relative benefits, otherwise have limited tools for
conveying color and nuance and, well, flavor,
short of all-caps and bold print and smiley-face emoticons. But let's face it, not everything warrants
that much intensity. Not every “hello”
is a “HELLO!!”
But here you have it: no sooner have I sprayed foam on this
rhetorical fire than we turn to this morning's celebratory passage and discover
a veritable dearth of punctuational punch.
Look at the reading once again.
How can you say phrases like “Sing aloud,” “Raise Shouts,” “Proclaim,”
and “Give praise” without an exclamation mark?
Come on! Show a little
enthusiasm! Make us think you really feel
it as well as really believe it.
More seriously, I should point out
that punctuation is a translational problem.
The original language actually had no punctuation marks at all; all those
elements were simply inferred and added by later interpreters and scribes. And in his defense, Jeremiah the prophet
could never be accused of being lukewarm.
He felt, and felt deeply – some might more pointedly say he felt “hotly” since his emotion tended toward
the angry and aggrieved. Those may not
be the most comfortable colors on our palette of emotion, but they are
important ones – which gets close to the point I want to make as we start out
this New Year together.
We have become a culture that seems to accept only a narrow
range of emotion. We can smile, but we’d
better not grin. We can frown, but God
forbid anyone raise her voice or let drop a tear. Before you know you it people will start
calling for therapy or recommending pharmaceuticals. Think about the way Tom Cruise was ridiculed
a couple of years back when his love-smitten joy got the better of him and he
leapt onto Oprah’s couch. Let a
politician tear up and get a catch in her voice and immediately she is
unbalanced or not up to the tough work of guiding a government. Well, from where I stand there is an awful
lot going on that ought to be making more than just politicians cry, though too
few seem to notice. And given all that,
I wouldn’t begrudge Tom Cruise – or anyone else, for that matter – any of
life’s exuberant little joys.
We were, after all, made to feel. Feelings are a part of our fabric – happy
ones, sad ones, angry ones, giddy ones , and all the gradient shades in-between
– and when we medicate them into numbness or straight-jacket them into
stillness it is like going through life with an arm and a leg tied behind our
back. There is a reason why emotions
have, since time immemorial, been associated with the heart – that most
fundamental organ that fuels our continued existence. Our feelings are as essential as the blood
pulsing through our veins. So when did
tears become taboo? And how did stoicism
come to be synonymous with strength? Why
is it that when someone experiencing a terrible grief is described as “holding
up pretty well,” all we really mean is that he is bottling up his grief – as
though that were somehow noble, or healthy?
Strength of character and intensity of emotion are not mutually
exclusive.
Jeremiah, for one, seems to get this. He virtually embodies the essential ability
to feel. As I suggested earlier, he is
best known for his anger and his sadness – sadness over the looming end of his
people for whom he cared so deeply, his grief over the fact that nobody else
seemed to “get it.” Everyone around him
kept insisting “peace, peace” when he seemed to be the only one to recognize
that there was none.
It could well be that among Jeremiah’s biggest contributions
was performing this ministry of grieving.
As Old Testament scholar Walter Brueggemann puts it, “Seeing what he saw
among his people, it was the only appropriate response. The [others around him] had for so long lived
in a protective, fake world that their perceptual field was skewed and with
their best looking they could not see what was there to see.” (Brueggemann, The
Prophetic Imagination, pp. 46-48, 56-57).
Jeremiah seemed intuitively to recognize what Jesus would
later make plain: that it is those who
mourn who will be comforted; that it isn’t the emotionally numb but rather the
grievers who “can experience their
experiences and move on” (Brueggemann).
Being able to mourn, in other words, exercises the same muscle that
makes it possible to dance with joy.
Thinking about it from another,
almost whimsical angle, Brueggemann goes on to write: “I used to think it curious that, when having
to quote scripture on demand, someone would inevitably say, 'Jesus wept.' It is usually done as a gimmick to avoid
having to quote a longer passage. But
now I understand the depth of that verse.
Jesus knew what we numb ones must always learn again: (a) that weeping must be real because endings
are real; and (b) that weeping permits newness.
His weeping permits the kingdom to come.
Such weeping is a radical criticism, a fearful dismantling because it
means the end of all machismo; weeping is something kings rarely do without
losing their thrones. Yet the loss of
thrones is precisely what is called for in radical criticism”
(Brueggemann).
I’m not a prophet, and I’m certainly
no great cultural analyst, but my sense is that 2010 looks to be a year when
quite a lot of “thrones” will need to be lost – prized patterns and established
orders that may well have served us for a time, but have now become
counter-productive. I'm thinking about
the way we view and manage our environment; the way we earn and spend and save
our money; the way we understand and defend borders and boundaries; the shape
of being church; the nature of prudence and the character of patriotism; the
prejudices and biases we have held on to about this group or that. In that latter regard, I take some
encouragement from Jeremiah’s vision that when God brings people home, God
brings all people home – the weak and the vulnerable, the blind
and the lame and the obligated – not just those who fit neatly inside the
socially accepted labels of “fit” and worthy and popular and pretty.
Jeremiah’s refrains offer us a word picture for the joy of
“new beginnings,” and if there is yet need to sink our teeth more deeply into
the meaty details of it, let us not, in the midst of the hard work of it,
neglect any opportunity to pick up our spoon and sip up the taste of it. Feeling,
with merry dancing, the joy of all the new beginnings that God is bringing into
view, however unfamiliar they may seem.